Passage
For you yourselves know how you ought to imitate us, because we did not act in an unruly manner among you,
For you yourselves know how you ought to imitate us, because we did not act in an unruly manner among you,
2 Thessalonians 3:5 And may the Lord direct your hearts into the love of God and into the steadfastness of Christ.
2 Thessalonians 3:6 Now we command you, brothers, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you keep away from every brother who walks in an unruly manner and not according to the tradition which they received from us.
2 Thessalonians 3:7 For you yourselves know how you ought to imitate us, because we did not act in an unruly manner among you,
2 Thessalonians 3:8 nor did we eat anyone’s bread without paying for it, but with labor and hardship we kept working night and day so that we would not be a burden to any of you;
2 Thessalonians 3:9 not because we do not have the authority, but in order to offer ourselves as a model for you, so that you would imitate us.
The verse centers on "yourselves", "ought", "imitate", "unruly", and "manner". It is saying that the verse draws attention to "yourselves" and "ought", so its meaning should be read from those terms before moving to application.
The nearby context moves from verse 6's "Now we command you brothers in the..." into verse 8's "nor did we eat anyone s bread...", so "yourselves" and "ought" belong inside that flow. In 2 Thessalonians context, the local focus is Christ, faith, and discipleship.
A plain takeaway is to answer the verse's own emphasis on "yourselves" and "ought" with trust shaped by these words, not by a vague optimism outside the passage.