Passage
but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, that is Christ,
but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, that is Christ,
Ephesians 4:13 until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the full knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ,
Ephesians 4:14 so that we are no longer to be children, tossed here and there by waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, by craftiness in deceitful scheming,
Ephesians 4:15 but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, that is Christ,
Ephesians 4:16 from whom the whole body, being joined and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the properly measured working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.
Ephesians 4:17 Therefore this I say, and testify in the Lord, that you walk no longer just as the Gentiles also walk, in the futility of their mind,
The verse centers on "speaking", "truth", "love", "grow", "aspects", "head", and "christ". It is saying that the verse draws attention to "speaking" and "truth", so its meaning should be read from those terms before moving to application.
The nearby context moves from verse 14's "so that we are no longer to..." into verse 16's "from whom the whole body being joined...", so "speaking" and "truth" belong inside that flow. In Ephesians context, the local focus is grace, union with Christ, the church, and new creation.
A plain takeaway is to answer the verse's own emphasis on "speaking" and "truth" with trust shaped by these words, not by a vague optimism outside the passage.