Passage
with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,
with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,
Ephesians 4:1 Therefore I, the prisoner in the Lord, exhort you to walk worthy of the calling with which you have been called,
Ephesians 4:2 with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,
Ephesians 4:3 being diligent to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
Ephesians 4:4 There is one body and one Spirit, just as also you were called in one hope of your calling;
The verse centers on "humility", "gentleness", "patience", "bearing", "another", and "love". It is saying that the verse draws attention to "humility" and "gentleness", so its meaning should be read from those terms before moving to application.
The nearby context moves from verse 1's "Therefore I the prisoner in the Lord..." into verse 3's "being diligent to keep the unity of...", so "humility" and "gentleness" belong inside that flow. In Ephesians context, the local focus is grace, union with Christ, the church, and new creation.
A plain takeaway is to answer the verse's own emphasis on "humility" and "gentleness" with trust shaped by these words, not by a vague optimism outside the passage.