Passage
Instead, be kind to one another, tender-hearted, graciously forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has graciously forgiven you.
Instead, be kind to one another, tender-hearted, graciously forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has graciously forgiven you.
Ephesians 4:30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.
Ephesians 4:31 Let all bitterness and anger and wrath and shouting and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.
Ephesians 4:32 Instead, be kind to one another, tender-hearted, graciously forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has graciously forgiven you.
The verse centers on "instead", "kind", "another", "tender-hearted", "graciously", "forgiving", and "each". It is saying that the verse draws attention to "instead" and "kind", so its meaning should be read from those terms before moving to application.
The prior verse says "Let all bitterness and anger and wrath...", giving immediate footing for "instead" and "kind". In Ephesians context, the local focus is grace, union with Christ, the church, and new creation.
A plain takeaway is to answer the verse's own emphasis on "instead" and "kind" with trust shaped by these words, not by a vague optimism outside the passage.